Sometimes, no matter how much you want a thing to last... no matter how generous the second chance or even the third there comes a time when you know that you can not go any further with a person. It little matters in this case why the end is nigh. I'm not writing about blame. I am writing about about awareness.
- When you are sitting with someone and the phone rings and you run to answer it and then disappear you should probably be aware that you've chosen who you want to be with. And it is not the person that is sitting on the couch. It is the person you are on the phone with.
- When you answer the phone "What?", knowing that your "girlfriend" is on the phone but you answer "Hi" with a lilt in you voice when "just someone" calls on the phone you should probably be aware that you've chosen "just someone".
- when you write one or two sentances to your girlfriend in an e-mail and "just someone" gets paragraphs... again, you know.